Wednesday, July 22, 2009

LOVE IS BLIND - I

Love is the best feeling! It’s great to be love and it’s wonderful to love someone. It’s been a long time I wanted to share a “Strange Story” (story of love, passion and emotions) that somehow ended badly. I know am not as good as my other friends… And since this is my first attempt of writing a love story, I’ll choose to tell you this one. It’s so much close to reality and it’s about someone whom I have known so closely…

She was like a child, so innocent, no idea how the world around her revolves… She had her own fairy-tale notions… that everything in world goes out so smoothly… to her even the badest of the bad people had good in them…she took herself as the ‘god own child’… ‘Practicing forgive and forget’… she left way for the ants to pass by so that they are not crushed under her feet…To her world was a dreamland…Even after what has happened to her… she has remained unchained… I see her today like always, bubbling, singing, dancing and acting… Yes ACTING like nothing has happened….

She has lost her LOVE… you might think what’s new in that…People lose and then find someone again… But this is story of her true sacrifice that she made just to be with her love for the rest of her life…She even told him, when asked repeatedly…’I am not gonna MARRY someone else if I lose you’…

Today, I see her trying… every bit of her trying to forget him and start afresh… She tries her best but she CAN’t… She mentions his name at least 1000 times a day… Despite the BETRAYAL… she says “He was the BEST”…

11 comments:

Raji U said...

WoW!! Who is this girl?? Someone I can relate to.. I see a lot of my friends get going with the next one unlike her.

Varun said...

tell your friend to move on...i know its hard but there is no way crying for the past....there are lot many things in this world to be happy about....if she is failed in love doesn't mean end of life...."i will not marry if i lose u" these things are just said because of emotions...but i'm sure that she will gonna marry somebody way better than her ex....so tell her to be positive...there are people who ruin somebody's life...but she ruining her life herself....

Ann said...

Yup Sweety !! Love is the most beautiful feeling. It makes the world go round... Everything seems sooo beautiful when you are with your beloved... But the bitter truth of life is only few people are blessed with true Love.

But it's not the end of the World. So, what if the person whom we loved is not with us, we can still love him without seeing him, can cherish the wonderful moments shared together ...

After all, life has to go on...

Anyways, this is a good start, keep penning... Waiting for the next part of the story :)

Luv,
Ann

Akum said...

This is quite a story. Truly a touching one. You are lucky to know this person.

I don't want to be harsh nor insensitive but hon can you pass this note to that person.

' life is not a bed of roses. Living in this world is a challange. Life is an adventure like no other adventure sport. It has everything. Happiness, loneliness, hatred, greed, passion, lust and love, it all comes under the package we call life. Its not that the world will stop just because someone betrays you, nor will the world end. Life goes on. Almost every human beings experience betrayal more than once in their lifetime. Imagine what if all those people stick to their past. This world would be full of sad and gloomy faces.

I know, moving on is a very tough word to follow, but unfortunately that is the only option. To be honest, the pain that you friend is going through is nothing, when compared to those mother whose sons get killed in war, whose daughters are killed after being brutally raped by gangs.

Who wants to face pain and heartaches. But this is life and all these experiences makes a person wiser and more mature.

MOHAMMED FARHAN KHAN said...

You dont know why people betrays?. Bcoz everyone is in search of true love even though when they dont know what is true love?. This true love is just like a mirage. When they got in touch of someone they think that they founded true love but when they spend time with each other they start knowing each others minus points and at that stage that love vanishes, they start thinking that this is not the right person they where finding and then they move on to other persons in search of same love. this is what you call betrayal they dont betray, they are foolish persons who dont know the meaning of love, they dont know that no one is perfect here,they even dont think that in this process what they have lost? They dont know how a relationship is maintained it is not only about love and when they realize it, it is late and no one can change the past.

Thoughts Know No Bounds said...

I agree, luv is the most b'ful feeling in this world...Remember him as best part of ur life...not worst....and tell proudly yes I luv him and will evr 4evr....nt I lost him....

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Well, is that the first part of story?

i felt it was like intro, dont know how did i sound....

so this girl was betrayed by a guy?

now dont stop girl...post the next parts soon....

vivek said...

it is better to remember your past as a beautiful phase of your life rather than a mistake that ruined your wholelife, so dear move on!
luv, vivek.

~ Lopa said...

hey nice blog...

love is a wonderful thing to be chrished forever and to be happy that it happened... it should be something memories of which makes life easier and not something which makes life stagnant and you are strucked at there forever !

Everyone is best in their own ways !

CutePriya said...

@ Rajalakshmi Umapathy

Hi Dear! She is one of my close friends. Will tell her story in parts.

@ Varun

Hi Varun. That's exactly wat i tell her...

@ Girl Next Door

Yup Dear! Love is indeed the BEST... i am glad that u liked it... will write the next part as soon as i get time.

@ A.K.

Yup A.K. even i tell her the same thing... but she says it'll take time for her "MOVE ON"

@ MOHAMMED FARHAN KHAN

Yes, some pple never realize what true love is?

@ Thoughts Know No Bounds

Exactly! One shd remember the best of what happened and take the worst as an experience.

@ Mahesh Sindbandge

Yes Mahesh. This was much like an intro. Will tell u the rest of the story... cuz its important to explain her INNOCENCE so u can understand WHY it all happnd to her.

@ vivek

Yup! I agree.

@ ~Lopa

Thanks for visiting dear! I am glad u like my blog... Love is indeed the best feeling and you should always remember the best and forget the rest...

Sathish Chandrasekaran (சதீஷ் சந்திரசேகரன்) said...

Girls are at a disadvantage when it comes to love because they dont have the same kinda freedom boys have...